Welcome to Whole You Healing

Hello Precious You! Thank you for stopping by!

My hunch is you are here because something within is not working for you. Perhaps you find yourself feeling stuck, isolated, bored, numb, anxious, disconnected, in physical pain, depressed, and are experiencing this in all parts of your world. I am a LCSW, a Certified TRE (Trauma/Tension Release Exercises) provider and a Certified Integrative Mental Health Professional (CIMHP). My somatic, anti-racist & heart/mind guided approach is devoted to creating a safe space for you that nurtures your transformation with spirituality, body based trauma/tension release practices, nutrition for mental health and an arts centered approach.

I teach TRE to individuals, families and communities and I provide individual and group therapy. I am enamored with the human’s capacity to accept and persevere and I offer trauma-informed photography services for individuals and groups who have overcome adversity and have a story to share.

I am committed to standing alongside you in your readiness to change in all the ways. Through bringing stillness to your nervous system and opening your heart with body based and spiritual practices, I will support you in learning how to listen to intuition, expand from pain, embrace vulnerability/intimacy and exercise free will rather than being hijacked by the soundtrack that lives in your mind. My work and heart is dedicated to helping people wake up to themselves and mobilize you to live a life full of safety, compassion and joy. I so look forward to supporting your journey.

Thanks and Love,

Neely Benn, LCSW, CIMHP

TRE Certified Provider

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Certified Integrative Mental Health Professional

I would invite anyone who needs a therapist to work with Neely. Her enthusiasm and compassion are boundless.
— Client
Neely is sensitive and compassionate and encourages people to take risks and go out of their comfort zones to become more reflective, resilient and understanding of loved ones with mental health issues.
— Client
Neely has broadened our knowledge, lifted our spirits and instilled a strong sense of self-care.
— Client
Neely taught me how to keep an open mind. I developed a great sense of compassion. She showed me that I have more patience than I ever thought.
— Client
Neely is an outstanding leader in all ways. She is bright, kind, helpful and full of knowledge which she passed on to us. She was prompt and very caring.
— Client
I like the strong sense of community that was created in Neely’s group. We could also be our authentic selves and not be concerned with being judged. We also became active listeners who grew to be very connected and more accepting of ourselves and our loved ones.
— Client
Neely helped show me that I’m not the only one struggling with a family member with a disability.
— Client

My Heart is endlessly fascinated with the evolving multidimensional resilient human. I really do believe my work gifts me over and over with the best seat in the house. I operate on a few studies/principles/approaches that I incorporate into my work regularly. The Polyvagal Theory, ACEs findings, and somatic practices are the foundations of how I comprehend the world and our work:

1) Trauma directly and deeply impacts physical health and the body knows how to heal itself when provided with aligned integrative support.

2) There is deep order to our trauma/pain patterning and with integrative body approaches we can gently make changes to repattern our trauma responses.

3) The body and our reality are physical manifestations of our beliefs and they can be changed anytime with work and commitment.

A few promises from me… I will educate you on your astounding, marvelous and intimately complex Central Nervous System. Your body utilizes a wordless comprehension system that ascends light years beyond the intellectual mind. My 15 years of experience has illuminated for me that most of us carry some form of trauma/PTSD and that the body can fully recover when given the right support. Our trauma responses can motivate us to do very unusual things. We dissociate, we fight, we flee… we become the victims, the villains, the heroes... all responses that gravely interfere with our relationship with ourselves and others. I will teach you how these responses can be re-patterned and healed. For white identifying clients - this work includes dedicating efforts to expanding your racial consciousness/awareness. Race is a myth. Our unexamined narratives around this topic are keeping our Central Nervous Systems deregulated and operating from a place of scarcity and threat. It is imperative for you to examine your patterning/relationship to your own white body and with other bodies that identify as Black, Indigenous, People of Color and/or Bodies of Culture. I will guide you through this with ongoing readings, discussions and practices.

I am certified in nutrition for Mental Health and I will guide you how to treat your body with love and care from the inside out. We will carefully look at your diet to see what is working and what is not. If you are living with depression, anxiety or addiction we will also create a program that supports a healthy mind/body reunion (incorporating healthy fats, amino acids, proteins, carbs, supplements, exercise, meditation and eliminating all processed foods). Working with me will give you access to some of the most heart centered holistic and integrative providers in Chicago (fascia tissue release specialists, acupuncturists, reiki, cranial sacral, nutritionists and integrative physicians).

From an emotional/mental/spiritual approach I will teach you very potent tools that will guide you how to slow down, get quiet and curious about your discomfort and heartbreak in a way that will expand and energize you, enliven your right brain with new hobbies and reconnect with the artist you always were (or, perhaps never knew). Your growth requires your commitment inside and outside of sessions. Our work together will incorporate specific readings, exercises, meditations, intuition awakening practices and artistic projects.

I believe that channeling your inner artist self is essential to your well being. Whether you have curiosity in the traditional arts, performance arts, visual/graphic arts or any other medium of creation, you at your core are an artist who needs to allow your inherent creative force to flow. I am so excited to help you uncover/remember and nurture this part of you. A happy body is one whose right brain and heart are activated regularly. Together we will discover/nurture dusty hobbies that may have fallen asleep.

My work is about improving and expanding, not fixing. This process is about imagining, reaching and welcoming a more refined, loving and accepting you that leans into and learns from discomfort rather than one who avoids it. I so look forward to joining you on your journey.

I liked the way Neely brought us all together in our problems. Her sense of humor was great and her responses to us as individuals was wonderful.
— Client
Neely helped me see that I am not alone on this journey.
— Client

URBEX Urban Exploration

 

I see resilience and hope in decay. My work as a photographer helps curious humans near and far embrace the beauty of their own unfiltered ruins in an era of curated social media updates.

I see a strong connection between abandoned places and the complexity of the human condition. These pictures are meant to resurrect hope and remind us that healing can grow from the most vulnerable places. This allows the creation of complicated beginnings that deserve thoughtfulness and attention, which ultimately form connections that are unique, vibrant and defiant of our decay.